Increasing number of unmarried men and women are common problem in some countries. Basically, in my opinion, women's status has been grown up and that has made them continue their willing work longer while that also has made them don't want to get married and have a child. I believe it is great thing that women have been working and been regarded equally as men, but I believe beeing a mother, wife is more wonderful work in women's life.
My mother says being mom makes you grow up and stronger than ever. When she got a baby, my older brother, first time, she felt she could do anything for him, she even thought she could give her life insterd of saving him. She became to concern what was good to feed him, what was the best environment for him, etc. She placed him first thing to think about.(She have used to plce herself first.) Becouse of having a baby, she had a lot of thing that she had to abandon what she wanted to do. However she tells me proudly that that made her greatly grow up. She says live for someone, is absolutelly not easy, but that is wonderful. And I am proud of beeing her doughter.
I love my family, I always think I want myown family to be like my family in future. Maybe, I still don't understand how it is for real when the situation get real. But I strongly think that getting married have more benefit and happier life than beeing unmarried.
I agree - but nowadays the media tends to downplay the traditional kind of household. You have to be intelligent to be a good mother - why has this intelligence been downplayed? Good post;)
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